Looking for an older country song... anyone want to help?

I think the song might be by Joe Nichols or Blake Shelton? It was around between 02 and 03... about his brother being late for a job on a boat and the brother dies. There is part of the video where fire trucks and cops are flying by a diner and a waitress drops a pitcher of beer all slow motion like. The artist is on the boat in a white beater and then in a hotel room lookin deal playing his guitar while he's singing... anyone can help that would be awesome!